Procrastinatin’ Laughs

Since it’s#FinalsWeek 2012, I wanted to keep the laughs going by posting this little comic I found on Facebook.

 

Do your stages of procrastination look something like this?! My favorite part is #6 Repeat. You would think we would learn why procrastination is NOT good, but for some of us who end up Acing exams or writing damn good papers under stress, our behavior gets positively reinforced.

Maybe one day procrastination will stop feeling so good.

Back to studying,

She

Blame it on YouTube

We all do it. We all beat ourselves up for it. Procrastination. But procrastination is what makes us human! And sometimes, it’s really okay. It’s downtime. It’s a break for our brains.

3 weeks away finals and the pressure is on! But not quite. So, here’s what I do besides write papers, work on projects and make study notes:

The Culprits:

  • The Dormtainment Fellas

These silly guys make some great procrastinatin’ material. My favorite character is Mr. Smiley and Leanin’ Leon (@LeaningLeon)- a brash Jamaican who holds nothing back.

Other fave’s from the guys: Guys Don’t Understand, INstagramming and Spam, To Catch A Predator (Parody)

Too honest for his own good. Check out: #LAMELANCE

This one made me shed a tear and laugh hard: Smell the Roses, S#$* Black Moms Say

The memorable things:

Why you eat outside all the times, waste of money, you should eat at home.

Do you have McDonald’s money?

Pa, how come you don’t take me anywhere nice like Olive Garden?

B?! B is for Bi*&*&!!

  • Any new BLACK webseries that’s really honest and funny. There is plenty to choose from, since a new one comes out like every week.

This one caught my attention, it’s called the Unwritten Rules.

Make sure you leave some other videos/webseries I should be procrastinatin’ on.

BULLET!,

She

Surviving School (at age 26)

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As the semester winds down, I couldn’t let too much time pass without sharing some of the tips and tricks I picked up as an older student returning to school after a 2 year break. Whether you’re considering going back to school, or are still in the thick of your undergraduate time here are some lessons I learned to survive being in school full time. And for a light laugh make sure you also check out 7 Things I Learned from going back to school (at age 26).

GLEAN [from the smartest]

It’s easy to tell after a couple of weeks, who’s excelling in class and who’s just not that serious. It may be the way a student sits in class, constantly answers/asks questions, generally has that ‘no-nonsense‘ demeanor, and even spends a lot of time in the library. There will be classes in which forming study groups is the only means for survival; if you have to be the one to organize the group– by all means, take the initiative. Seek out these exceptional students, and glean from them. In a group setting, glean whatever strategies/methods they use to study, and don’t be afraid to ask them how they prepare for exams or take notes in class.

ANNOTATE [your readings]

There’s nothing more pointless than spending hours reading pages of information you’ll forget the second you’re done with the chapter. Highlighting information you intend to go back and re-read is not real efficient either, because realistically, how often do you re-read text? If you’re going to read, be active about it, and highlighting is not it. Annotation is the name of the game, and it’s basically paraphrasing in your own words what you have read. If you own the book, write it in the margins, if not– use sticky notes or a separate sheet of paper to pull out definitions, theories, or ideas you think are central to the readings. Make sure you mark what page numbers you got the information from, for easy reference. (Source: College Rules! By Nist and Holschuh)

STAND OUT [from the crowd]

I understand you’re shy and you don’t want to ask a stupid question, but you want to be more than a name on a piece of paper– you want to be a face to remember. This is especially crucial for classes in which professors won’t bother learning each student’s name– and they might even tell you this the first day of class. If your professor likes the sounds of their own voice so much they take up all of class time, wait until after class to introduce yourself and ask a question. And keep asking questions or making comments, let them know you’re paying attention.

ME TIME [in moderation]

Understand and be clear about what your down time activities refer to. Is it and hour on Facebook, a social club event, or an evening bowling? Know what your rewards are, and treat them as such– delaying gratification is well worth it because you are learning how to enhance the pleasure by grueling through the painful mud first. After you’ve put in hard work completing important assignments, writing papers, and putting in a decent amount of time studying…that reward will be that much sweeter.

STUDY [without distractions]

Being in the library for 6 hours at a time does not constitute ‘productivity.’ I am learning this the hard way. I study while maintaining a full-blown text conversation. I also freelance study; I get tired with one subject, and move on to another. There is a pattern forming here showing me I’m lacking long-term concentration. Surely my texting is affecting the way I relate to the subject matters on my plate. I will soon come to see what strategies work for one class, and what I need to change in order to call what I do at the library real ‘studying.’ I cannot tell you how you must study (surely every class is different) but I will say that you should monitor what you’re actually learning during these sessions by quizzing yourself, talking out loud to yourself about what you have learned, and other rehearsal strategies. The big show (exams) will not be too far ahead… how will you score?

Best wishes for finals,

She

Friday Fun: 9 Truths and Alie!

Well, I guess I gave that one away...

If you’ve ever played the ice-breaker/social game 2 truths and a lie, then you know it’s all about bluffing and how quick you can think on your feet! Here are the simple rules: Share 2 things about yourself that are the truth, and one that is not. See if anyone can guess (and usually it’s hard for strangers) which ‘fact’ is actually not!

The weekend is officially here therefore let the sillyness begin! Below you’ll find my 9 truths…and a sneaky lie. Most of my truths are things I’ve shared on the blog, so if you’ve been reading, you’re ahead of the game!

Let’s Go!

  1. On my first solo trip, I went to Bocas Del Toro, Panama.
  2. I was valedictorian of my Junior High School.
  3. I don’t drink beer.
  4. I don’t prefer watching movies alone.
  5. The only soda I drink is Ginger-Ale.
  6. If I could choose another career, it would be to become a pilot.
  7. I want to live in D.C. and marry a bearded Black Man.
  8. I don’t do Facebook, or Tumblr.
  9. I was bald as a baby.
  10. I got my navel pierced at 26.

PLAY ALONG: Along with your guess of which fact of mine is Alie, Share your 2 truths and Alie below, I’ll try to guess which one is the lie!

Have a great weekend,

She

Tica Wan No: Questions for the Ladies VLOG

Today marks the birth of Tica Wan No (aka Tica Wants to Know). An anytime-I-feel-so VLOG where I ask any random questions that I’m really curious about and that a Google search just won’t suffice.

I really appreciate your answers to my unofficial first blog of the series (QUESTIONS), where I got some valuable questions answered regarding frozen/refrigerated foods.  Since wedding season is upon us, I figured I’d direct this VLOG specifically to the ladies.

Please don’t be shy…if this is your first time here, or your a loyal Tracer… make sure you let me know you stopped by!

Peace and Love,

She

21 Things: A Birthday Tribute to Maura

On this coming Saturday, April 21st my Big Sis will be celebrating her 30-something birthday. At a beautiful resort in Playa Bonita, Costa Rica. Without me. *sad face*

Anywho, I decided since I cannot be where she is I would send her some virtual hugs and appreciation by putting all her business on the streets. Below are some things I love to love about her, and if you know her, I’m sure you would agree. Feel free to add more things you love about MAURA (pronounced ma-oh-ra real fast!). And if you don’t know her, that’s okay, send her some wishes too!  Audience participation strongly recommended.

Maurita (right) and Tracita circa 2006

21 Things You May Not Know About Maura:

Maurita,

  • You’re the strongest person I know.
  • Your presence and laughter lights up a room.
  • You’ve been married for 4 years now. :)
  • People can hear you coming blocks away.
  • You’re not afraid to leave your comfort zone.
  • You aspired to culinary arts, debt collection, and entrepreneurship before landing the right job doing something you studied: dental technician.
  • You taught me how to drive. (and Chevon)
  • You’re a sucker for love/comfort/acceptance.
  • If someone has your loyalty, they have it for life.
  • You give more thank you ask for.
  • We got our ‘first jobs’ together when I was 19 and you were 26. Then we went and spent most of that money on Roca-Wear velours and Air Jordans on Jamaica Avenue.
  • You make the best bread pudding.
  • You can’t spell for nothing! But I still love you.
  • You came from the most humble woman ever.
  • You’re a hustler, baby.
  • Your toes are comparable to chicken feet. But I still love you.
  • When I got a boyfriend, you dated his cousin.
  • You helped me and my mother’s relationship with the reflection of your own closeness with your mom.
  • You love Fred Hammond.
  • You drive in cars with loud music.
  • You write like a leftie, but you’re a righty.

AND A BONUS….

You are the best sister/daughter/girlfriend/friend anyone could ever ask for!!

God has way more in store for you than you can imagine, I love you.

Your ñaña,
She